Alone No More

Once we fall in love, our thoughts, regardless what we might be doing at the time- paying the bills, exercising seem to be pulled to the target of our affection. Particularly when the relationship is fresh, we imagine the next occasion we'll spend time with that individual, talk with them. And naturally, we wish to make our partner pleased: to surprise them with simple acts, like fixing a delicious, home-cooked meal or fixing a busted appliance in their house or apartment. However as easy and natural as it is to prioritize that person you fall in love with, the most crucial individual in a relationship happens to be the one you see in the mirror each morning: yourself.

We may only control our own feelings and our own actions-as much as we might wish that wasn't so. Trying to find a partner before recognizing who you are and what you wish is destined to lead to confusion and grief. Additionally, you have to be your own best friend and your own defender, as your mate might not inevitably do this for you.